You see, there is nothing positive that you can manifest by talking about your past.
There are only two situations that could really happen; one is that you are in pain or having problems or something you hated from the past, so you bring with you this story and the feeling at this moment, and this moment is manifesting to your future, so there will be a recurrence of the same problem or they will get an award they want, but really when you talk about it, it's a lack of mentality because you usually think I need to talk about it. After all, I probably don't need to go through myself now and in the future.
So if you can't put these old stories aside, you won't be able to. People will do it again and again, they become particular about their past, they talk in relationships, they relate. See that in the relationship when they start talking about it, oh they're ex-boyfriends or they've been there before, and it's kind of weird because actually, they want some kind of importance when you always understand that there's no such thing as an action without a purpose, so it means that every time someone says something, there's a purpose behind it.
They didn't talk about their ex-partner by accident or anything, but because they talked about it, they want to speak. It's the bad thing about the human mind that they don't think enough. You know, it's like a chess game, but they don't see the sixth or seventh move, so something happens in their head where they think when I talk about my past and the other person speaking gets upset, then at least I know they care about me, but it's like you're playing these games because they don't realize when you bring in the past, guess what your past problems are. Are you, or do you still have that energy in you, creating the past and the future to keep new things from manifesting in beautiful ways?
Of course, chaos does. I mean, uh, all hell breaks loose and then people start fighting and it's not what they expected. um, but actually if the person is the twisted now, if the partner, the life partner, isn't responding, that person is going to feel empty as well, isn't that a bit messy because?
It's like you wait for a second when they react, you wouldn't like their reaction because it would start a fight but at the same time it will make you feel important, it will make you feel to be loved but if they didn't respond it would Do you feel empty or lost or like hey something's missing why don't you care? It's a disaster, isn't it?
I think both partners have to know this message, they have to see it because then they have the mutual understanding that it's good not to react because they do it don't react to anything else they answer they learn to react they learn to keep calm. Keep your calm, keep your peace and happiness, and then the person saying it will stop saying those things because that's all you bring Past into now and now it manifests in the future which is a lot of chaos.5
I think what people need is self-love, like people don't have to try to chase after other people's love or they only feel important when they look at other people's reactions, I mean as soon as someone love from feels inside you don't have to do those stupid actions, you know if it's conscious or unconscious, and life is so much easier sometimes people say but it's ok to talk about happy memories of the past, and again it's the same thing I really mean, yes, of course, in a conversation, why not talk about past memories? But if one of those memories from the past is an opportunity to spark a negative conversation or fight or conflict, then why bring it up, and also when trying to celebrate an old victory of yours? Why do you celebrate the old victory? Why don't you celebrate today? Why don't you celebrate your future? Start moving forward